28th
Men, Women, Gorgeous Female Anatomy
I’m not offended that men click-thru to the delicious pink, labia and vulva closeups on BuzzNoirBabes at 5-times the frequency of other photos. Personally, I find many of the photos totally gorgeous and very erotic.
Women say this focus on body parts reduces them somehow. I think it beautifies us. I don’t think it’s fair to men, to suggest that appreciating the erotic gorgeosity of our private parts makes them empty-headed, emotionless morons.
I honestly believe that women stand to gain from men’s appreciation of our pleasure zone. Our bodies are artforms, not disgusting appendages that must be endured somehow.
Yes … I agree that the male fantasy focus can be about penetrating this exquisite part of a woman’s anatomy, but don’t think that licking, sucking, tasting, pleasing a woman isn’t also part of the male fantasy.
Studies indicate that today’s men are far more eager and ready to please a woman orally, bringing her to orgasm with a focus on her clitoris, than women are to reciprocate the gesture with men.
Today’s women should explain this imbalance, instead of always complaining that men are poor lovers and not focused on women’s pleasure.
This year’s 80,000 person MSNBC/Elle research study indicates that the same woman who compliments her husband on his improvement in pleasuring her with cunnilingus, doesn’t feel obligated to reciprocate in fellatio.
What’s that about, ladies?
Even Alexa Cushing, can’t explain away this gender imbalance in the oral sex department. When loving partners or spouses don’t reciprocate, I’m left speechless.
We assume that women are doing all the sucking and administering to a man’s needs. Today’s reality appears very different, at least in the couples interviewed by MSNBC/Elle. 80,000 participants is not a small survey. It’s large enough to suggest a widespread reality in American bedrooms.
Perhaps we should give the guys a break for once? Can we women admit that they’re at least trying in bed … and that perhaps we, too, should try a bit harder.
Kisses, Alexa Cushing
